think honey.. dont blame people

why do we have to concern about other people? when they dont even concern about us..

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a friend of a friend of mine asked me this question.. its a dumbstruck question.. make me think hard how to answer..

in a logical way, the answer would be like this:
coz we need people in our life.. its a thing we have to do to maintain good relationship with people..

in a concern-spiritual/religious way, the answer would be like this:
even-though people not concern about us, we have to concern about people.. reward will be given to those who are nice to other people.. we learn this since we were like 3? hmm..

in a jokingly way, the answer would be like this:
who say? all malacca people are really good at concerning others.. like me.. ahahaha..

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sometimes we do feel angry with people.. saying that they are not concern as we are.. but maybe we chose the wrong friend..

to me, a few good friend is WAY better than having thousands of friend..

i dont care about friend.. i care about my bestfriend.. to be concern and understanding is the most crucial thing you gotta have in a friendship.. its a give and take..

but let us take a look in a mature sight..

you cant expect everyone stay by your side all the time..

they got hard times too..

have you think about that?

dont you sounds selfish if you want everybody to concern about you?

to me it's simple..

if you want my concern, share with me or show to me and i'll give you..

if not, i wont bother.. not because that i'm not concern but because i respected your choice for not sharing with me..

if you still think that you lack of people concerning about you, then i think you are attention seeker.. ok.. that is your problem right now.. hahaha.. just switching on the button in your brain to think about it..

ok.. if its really true that ALL the people around you not concern about you, then i think you are the one who got problem..

think honey.. dont blame people..

:)